On the 21st of May one of the youngest European democracies celebrated its fifth year independence, but not everyone in Montenegro, the smallest country in Western Balkans, had the reasons for celebration. Ten days after the Independence Day the participants of the first Pride Parade in Montenegro planned to walk the streets of Podgorica demanding their rights.
Morning news on the 17th of May, the International day against homophobia, shocked and confused the public with the words about delaying the first Pride Parade, and it divided the country, some were celebrating this news with joy and relief while others were speechless.
What happened?
Music was blasting from the speakers on the roof of a local cultural center, the night before. A number of about 300 people danced and enjoyed themselves, the music of the Croatian punk-rock band Lollobrigida and their fantastic performance were promising a good party. The event that was organized by the NGO Juventas regarding the International day against the homophobia had the goal to promote values of tolerance, equality and differences. With the slogan LOVE IS ATTITUDE, people were invited to enjoy the music and get over the bias against the LGBT population. All that was ruined by a simple throwing of tear-gas in the public, people started to scream and run but the band kept playing, with the words: ”You can’t hurt us”, the lead singer continued the concert.
But the news weren’t good for the Montenegrin LGBT community, two people were attacked in the city center for just walking (or being gay?), the police didn’t react on time and the attack wasn’t officially reported due to the fear and the mistrust in the police and the courts.
The canceling of the parade was the next logical step, if the police couldn’t protect 300 people on the roof top of a private building, how could they protect the people that planned to join the parade?
All talk and no action
The next day the parade was officially cancelled, the organizational board along with the European Union parliamentary Jelko Kacin, who attended the concert and how the Montenegrin media reported, felt the homophobic tear-gas himself, said that the Government didn’t give enough support to the LGBT population and that the parade itself is delayed until the Government shows their commitment to the protection of human rights and until it appoints high public official. Zdravko Cimbaljevic, executive director of LGBT Forum progress and one of the organizers of the Pride Parade, said: -‘They wanted to appoint deputies from the Ministry to the organizational board. We cannot accept it, unless we have presence of Prime minister or his closest co-workers. That gives people a real picture how serious is governmental support.’ When asked about the cooperation with the Government, Zdravko stated that all their talks were full of promises but they wanted more, they wanted real actions. ‘ If you look at the whole Pride situation, the Government supported the whole idea and the LGBT population and their rights, but when it came to concrete steps and real actions they showed that they are not capable or willing to help us. As long as they refuse to appoint someone politically relevant they are sending a picture to LGBT community in Montenegro and the whole world that in reality they do not support this Pride Parade.’
They used the press conference to condemn violent attacks on two members of the LGBT community but they explained that this event didn’t affect their decision, it is formed only by non existing governmental support, or should we say the support that’s not just represented in official Government papers. Also the expression delayed, is not just politically correct speech, but the real fact. ‘The Pride Parade is not canceled, it will be held as soon as we get the support we need’, Zdravko confirmed it.
The education?
Recent surveys indicated that 68.5% of Montenegrins think homosexuality is a disorder and that 61.3% think that homosexuals should not have the right to publicly show affection (i.e., kissing and holding hands). What’s the reason of this high percent? A fact that Montenegro is a very conservative country, that its citizens still live according to traditional norms or that they are completely ignorant when it comes to the rights of LGBT population and other minorities?
Daliborka Uljarevic, director of the Centre for Civic Education and member of the Board for organization of Pride Parade, says: ‘Negative attitude towards LGBT population represents one of the last fortresses of conservatism we need to win. Responsibility for it is primarily on the institutions of system and decision makers. Civil society is there to make certain subjects part of governmental agenda, to initiate solutions, suggest concrete changes and follow their practice. Together, we all need to intensively and devoted work on establishing a culture of tolerance, as much as we can, effecting that way on creating better political, legislative and social frame which gives equal chances to all our citizens, without considering their differences. It takes time, but the key thing is to have decision makers who will lead in promoting modern concept of human rights. Ones not capable or ready for it need to leave their positions and make space for further democratization of our society which will be based in elimination of discrimination of our citizens, no matter why.’
Centre for Civic education, amongst other projects, since 2004 realizes project ‘School for human rights’ and within it has regular part where participants discuss on LGBT rights. They promoted these rights through a film festival on human rights, called Speed up, where third of showed movies were about LGBT rights. Maybe the education is a key to helping 26% of Montenegrins who would stop all contact with their dear ones if they found out that they are gay or the other 25,1% who would try to explain them that being gay is wrong.
But what could we expect from a school system that either doesn’t recognize the existence of gay, lesbian and transgendered people or sees them as a problematic, deviant part of the society? We’re not talking about the minister of the education or his clerks, we are talking about teachers, principals and books that promote obsolete ideas about gay people.
And we got proofs for these allegation last year, when a psychology high school professor claimed on one of the Montenegrin most watched TV shows that homosexuality is a disease and that she cured a lot of gay people, lets not disregard that she brought her underage students to a talk show that was for 18+ audience. That professor is still working in the same high school.
The Living example
When you interview Zdravko Cimbaljevic a twenty-something young man, a NGO activist and a representative of young Montenegrin generations, modern and equipped with all the latest gadgets from cell phones to i-pads, you won’t notice nothing out of ordinary, but this everyday young man happens to be the first publicly out gay person in Montenegro. He’s also the first gay case in the history of our judiciary system, he was attacked and bullied several times by the same person, and when he decided to report the attacks he didn’t came to understanding of the police, in fact he came in a position where he had to explain to a police officer the meaning of sexual orientation. When he felt what it exactly means to be discriminated in his own society he knew something must be done. ‘I don’t live in an illusion that the Parade is going to change everything, or that my case will be a landmark for future, but what we need is to start doing something. People in Montenegro need to hear our voice, need to be aware that we live with them. They shouldn’t ignore us anymore.’
Working in a building whose walls are sprayed with words like, ‘Death to fags’ and living in such a homophobic society didn’t stop him to be who he is, and it didn’t stop him to live his life. And we need more brave people, more young people like him.
The words and the paint on the buildings can change, but are we really ready to accept some new colors to our black and white world, and abandon the hatred and bigotry that got a hold of us.
Are YOU ready to be proud Montenegro, are WE ready to be proud?








